We all know that men and women are not made equally. We all
have our flaws and our setbacks. However, there are some women out there who
really don’t fit the mold when it comes to being a good girlfriend. While some
men will openly speak out about it, others will keep it to themselves, never
revealing how much their relationship sucks from their point of view. In case
your man is a part of the latter group, here are 14 signs that you’re the
girlfriend from hell — and you’re making his life miserable.
You nitpick at anything and
everything and are extremely high maintenance and not afraid to admit it. You
only wear name brand clothes and you can only be wined and dined at upscale
restaurants. Money makes you happy and all eyes have to be on you, no matter
where you go. Men don’t really like high maintenance women much, so your
must-haves and needs may be taking a toll on your man.
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YOU’RE
JEALOUS
Jealousy is never a pretty quality.
But, the trait appears even worse when you’re in a relationship. There’s
nothing more annoying than having to deal with a jealous woman who doubts
everyone and everything. Being jealous of other women and always taking offense
when your man is around other women isn’t the ideal mindset to have when you’re
in a relationship. Jealousy drives men crazy.
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EVERYTHING
IS ABOUT YOU
No matter where you two go or what you do, it has to be all
about you. Every plan that the two of you make has to be approved before it can
be put into motion. You expect your man’s day to revolve around you, no matter
what else is on his schedule. You make it a point to remain his first and only
priority.
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YOU
PRETEND LIKE YOU TRUST HIM
At the end of the day, no matter how
much of a face you put on, you know you don’t trust your man. You look through
his phone and his laptop on a daily basis. You often accuse him of cheating on
you or of some sort of infidelity. Though you tell him you trust him, you
really don’t. Trust us, he sees through the charade.
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YOU
COMPLAIN A LOT
We all complain, but there are some women out there who
complain entirely too much. Just as you don’t like to listen to someone dwell
on and moan about their problems all day, your guy feels the same way. There is
nothing more annoying and frustrating than having to listen to a girl do
nothing but whine and antagonize. If you are a huge complainer, your man may
not say it, but you’re definitely digging yourself a hole.
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YOU TRY TO CHANGE HIM
Your man will be who he is, just as
you will be who you are. While relationships require change and morphing from
all parties involved, this change should happen naturally not forcibly. If you
are a woman who tries to change the person she is dating, then you’re
definitely not doing yourself any justice. There is no sense in trying to
change someone, especially the person you’re dating.
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YOU OPENLY
CRITICIZE HIM
Constructive and useful criticism is
often welcomed by most people. However, if you’re the type of woman who will
openly and publicly criticize your man, just know that you’re doing more harm
than good. While you may think that the criticism you’re offering is worthwhile
and helpful, your method of delivering said criticism gets rid of any
positivity that ever existed. If you’re going to criticize, do it nicely and
privately.
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COMMUNICATION
ISN’T YOUR FORTE
You aren’t the best at
communication, despite knowing that you have to talk to your man if you want
things to work. You aren’t keen on talking about your feelings or thoughts when
things are wrong. You also tend to bring up problems at the wrong times. You’re
better at texting your feelings than talking about them in person.
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YOU DON’T
GET ALONG WELL WITH OTHERS
When the two of you hang out with
other people, your guy always has to worry about whether or not you will get
into an argument with someone or not. You don’t play well with others and
you’re not one to hide that fact. Having to constantly go out in public with
the fear that you may start trouble is definitely not a good feeling for your
man.
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YOU’RE NOT
VERY SUPPORTIVE
No matter if he’s had a bad day at
work or is going through a stressful time in life, you aren’t one to be his
shoulder to lean on. Instead, you tell him to man up and to move on. When times
get tough, even the manliest of men want a shoulder to lean on. If you don’t
offer that, your man is probably all sorts of stressed.
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YOU’RE
CLINGY
On the opposite end of not caring is
being a woman who is way too clingy. Guys may be able to deal with clingyness
at first, depending on the man, but after weeks and months go by, a man isn’t
looking to have to deal with an extremely clingy girl. It’s annoying,
especially for a man, to have to call you every hour on the hour and to ensure
that you spend every waking minute together. It’s just not ideal or realistic.
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YOU’RE
CONTROLLING
You like to have a firm grip on your
man and his schedule. You have a lot of say in what he does on a daily basis,
including when he sees his friends and family members. Dating a controlling
woman is extremely hard for any man, and it can definitely be an ending factor.
Though you two are dating, there’s no need to feel the need to have full
control over each others’ lives.
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YOU’RE
NEVER WRONG
Whenever anything goes downhill or completely wrong, you
always point the finger at someone else, including your man, even if the blame
is solely on you. Constantly pointing the finger and always brushing off
responsibilities onto the other is a good way to slowly but surely push a man
away. In your eyes you’re an angel that could never do wrong, but we all know
that isn’t true.
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YOU’RE A
PRUDE
Let’s face it; most men have insane libidos, and while it’s
plenty all right to not want it every single night, there can be plenty of
issues if you say no to sex altogether and turn your man down a good percentage
of the time. If your man is one of the bold ones, he won’t hesitate to tell you
that you’re a prude or that your libido is severely lacking in comparison to
his. In any case, sexual tension can definitely make you and a relationship
unbearable.
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